T-Life Group Discussion Questions

More Words of Wisdom, Week 3: Undivided

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Message Review       

In Week 3 of our 5-week series, “More Words of Wisdom,” we discovered integrity is not about moral perfection; it’s about wholeness. A divided life leads to duplicity, Jesus wants to make us whole. Integrity isn’t something you achieve. It’s someone you invite in.

Main Point | Integrity isn’t something you achieve. It’s someone you invite in.

Focus Passages | Proverbs 11:1-3 

Discussion Questions:

  • What were your initial thoughts or takeaways from the sermon, and why?

  • What does the word integrity mean to you?

  • Do you think living with integrity is important? Why?

  • Jamie said most people aren’t living one life, but several. How have you seen or experienced that?

  • We learned that integrity means wholeness, completeness, and being the same person on the inside as on the outside.

    • Why do you think living with full integrity can be so challenging?

    • What are some indicators that someone is living a divided life?

  • Read Proverbs 11:1-3:

    • What words or phrases stand out to you in this passage?

    • What does the writer of Proverbs say God detests and what finds favor with Him (vs 1)? What does that mean?

    • Who does the writer of Proverbs describe as upright and as unfaithful (vs 3)? 

    • What is the difference between integrity and duplicity (vs 3)?

    • How does integrity guide us (vs 3)? What does integrity guide us into?

    • Why does duplicity eventually destroy us (vs 3)? How does it destroy us?

  • In what areas of your life are you living with integrity? 

  • In what areas of your life are you living a divided life? What “destruction” might that duplicity be leading to?

  • Be honest – Do you want to be a person of integrity? Why or why not?

  • Read Revelation 3:20:

    • What is Jesus saying He’s always doing in our lives? What does that mean?

    • What is Jesus’ invitation to us? What does it look like to practically do that?

    • What does Jesus promise He will do if we open the door? What does that mean?

  • Jamie said, “Integrity isn’t something you achieve. It’s someone you invite in. God makes us whole when we invite Jesus into every part of our lives.”

    • How and why are you resisting inviting Jesus into the area of your life where you are living a divided life?

    • What would it look like to open the door and invite Jesus into that part of your life today?

  • How can our group pray for you to open the door and invite Jesus in?

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